Sahih Muslim, 2161

Rapporté par ‘Aïcha : Quand on a annoncé au Messager d’Allah ﷺ que Ibn Haritha, Ja’far b. Abu Talib et Abdullah b. Rawaha avaient été tués, il s’est assis, manifestant sa tristesse. Elle a dit : « Je le regardais à travers la fente de la porte. Un homme est venu lui dire que les femmes de Ja’far se lamentaient. Le Prophète ﷺ lui a ordonné d’aller leur interdire cela. Il y alla, puis revint et dit qu’elles n’avaient pas obéi. Il lui ordonna une deuxième fois d’y retourner et de leur interdire. Il y retourna, puis revint et dit : “Par Allah, Messager d’Allah, elles nous ont dépassés.” » ‘Aïcha dit qu’elle pensa que le Messager d’Allah ﷺ lui avait dit de leur jeter de la poussière à la bouche. Elle ajouta : « Qu’Allah t’humilie ! Tu n’as pas fait ce que le Messager d’Allah ﷺ t’a ordonné, ni empêché d’ennuyer le Messager d’Allah ﷺ. »

A'isha reported that when the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) was told that Ibn Haritha, Ja'far b. Abu Talib and Abdullah b. Rawaha were killed, he sat down, showing signs of grief. She (further) said:I was looking (at him) through the crevice of the door. A man came to him and mentioned that Ja'far's women were lamenting. He (the Holy Prophet) commanded him to go and forbid them (to do so). So he went away but came back and told (him) that they did not obey (him). He commanded him a second time to go and forbid them (to do so). He again went but came back to him and said: I swear by God, Messenger of Allah, that they have overpowered us. She ('A'isha) said that she thought the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) had told (her) to throw dust in their mouths. Thereupon 'A'isha said: May Allah humble you! You did not do what Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) ordered you, nor did you stop annoying Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)