صحيح مسلم 2154

Hisham narrated on the authority of his father that it was mentioned to 'A'isha that Ibn 'Umar had narrated as marfu' hadith from the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) that the dead would be punished in the grave because of the lamentation of his family for him. Upon this she said:He (Ibn 'Umar) missed (the point). The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) had (in fact) said: He (the dead) is punished for his faults or for his sins, and the members of his family are wailing for him now. (This misunderstanding of Ibn 'Umar is similar to his saying: ) The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) stood by the well in which were lying the dead bodies of those polytheists who had been killed on the Day of Badr, and he said to them what he had to say, i. e.: They hear what I say. But he (Ibn 'Umar) misunderstood. The Prophet (ﷺ) had only said: They (the dead) understand that what I used to say to them was truth. She then recited:" Certainly, thou canst not make the dead hear the call" (xxvii. 80), nor can you make those hear who are in the graves, nor can you inform them when they have taken their seats in Hell

Rapporté par Hisham, d’après son père : On rapporta à ‘Aïcha qu’Ibn ‘Umar avait transmis comme hadith attribué au Messager d’Allah ﷺ que le défunt serait puni dans la tombe à cause des lamentations de sa famille sur lui. Elle répondit : « Il s’est trompé. Le Messager d’Allah ﷺ a en fait dit : “Il est puni pour ses fautes ou ses péchés, et sa famille pleure sur lui maintenant.” (Cette confusion d’Ibn ‘Umar est semblable à sa parole : ) Le Messager d’Allah ﷺ s’est tenu près du puits où gisaient les corps des polythéistes tués le jour de Badr, et il leur a dit ce qu’il avait à dire, c’est-à-dire : “Ils entendent ce que je dis.” Mais il s’est trompé : le Prophète ﷺ a seulement dit : “Ils comprennent que ce que je leur disais était vrai.” » Elle récita ensuite : « Tu ne peux pas faire entendre les morts » (Coran 27:80), ni faire entendre ceux qui sont dans les tombes, ni les informer quand ils sont en Enfer